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December 18, 2013

Contact vs. Connect

We meet people from all different walks of life everyday.....If we are receptive enough or friendly enough.


Me...Jazuri J... is a very friendly person, perhaps too friendly, but hey I wouldn't have these episodes to give to you if I just laid up in my house looking at the walls imagining people right (see movie- 'The Perfect Host' for a perfect understanding).

When you reach out to someone - via phone, email, VoIP, message in a bottle, smoke signals etc. You are attempting to contact someone right?? Even worse if you're going through some effort (refer to 'Please Call Me' msg #5), it is absolutely frustrating if the other end is not responding to the precious minutes you are easily giving up. Correct? This is when YOU are making the effort right?

What about those 'reach out' instances that you have no control over, you meet someone and it was never your intention to contact them ever again, you made no attempt to even bat your lashes or make a move- however something, or someone, bigger than you decided against this, and by the force of gravity, or some strong drink, you are tingling to be with them? Strange? Never happened to  you ever? Ok fine....YOU alone can remain in denial, I had a friend once who was there and we ...I mean she...never liked it *wink wink*.

*Fireworks explosion* YOU have CONNECTED.....my friend. Some soul shifting movement is taking place and if you are 'wide asleep' you may never notice until it is too late. It is easy to find people with similar interests like yourself- maybe you can drink together, smoke together, shop together, even gossip together....these bonds are just tiny strings that hold the union together the more strings you have the tighter the bond.

Too often we feel that a blimp of existence is enough...a FB msg, the notion to Like 'anything', the many impersonal ways of communication without connection. Whether you are a hermit or nudist...Yes I like extremes...YOU need people, whether to make fun of or to have fun with...you choose. Find the ones who you CONNECT with and make the effort with them FIRST. I am not saying you do not need your rolodex with all those contacts, networking is important for business!!!

I did tell you this is my therapy...so don't be upset because you are still reading... Be glad this is not an e-book!! Let me just get up to this point real quick....

Look beyond the face value of who and what you see and be in tune to what you feel. Connect with someone today and preserve that union. Re-connect with those who you can find, meditate some more to channel your own feelings so that you may be able to interpret the signals.

Bless Up Urself!!

You can reach me @:  jazurij@gmail.com







December 05, 2013

Popping the Cherry!

Greetings......

The excitement is unnerving, I should not be so hyped up and it is just words...right? I am anonymous...Nobody knows who or what I am about AS YET!

Yet still the feeling is synonymous to that first time....for those of us who can remember or even took the time and effort to care. That ultimate fantasy moment, has it ever happened more than once? Can you remember all the times you felt the same feeling as if it were your first?

Please chile! I have stopped talking about sex a short time ago, not because I alluded to it, that means it is the end all of all. Well maybe for some it is. But what I am provoking you to understand, yes some of us won't move until we are prodded, nudged, right out slapped in the face! are the various occurrences in your life that caused you to feel this great anticipation as if your cherry was about to be POPPED!

Well Hellooooooo Nurse!!! Patient over here! I have never written a blog before, ever! I used to write some poetry back in the day and collated them all in some book hidden deep under some old quilts, last year's Christmas tree and any other current day junk I manage to throw from arms length into storage. Each time I revisit them, I am transported back into time, taken to familiar places, faces and even graces.

This is more than JUST a blog, this will be my therapy, my voice, my existence as I do believe I was sent here for a purpose- to touch minds and that is what I will be doing...through humour, intelligence (when I google the definition), pain, and a regular dose of reality. When you come here you must take something back of use! Even if it is just pure entertainment.

I am taking us on a journey through me...you will be surprised, fascinated, maybe even angry if I don't say the right words....I don't give a %#@* just embrace me! *big grin* Lot's of cherry popping moments will be attributed to this right here!

Think again with me folks....go back in time and have that feel good moment, right after the fact, or the act in some cases, *bigger grin*. Now I want you to apply that euphoric feeling to the next BIG thing you have to do that you are probably running away from. Let's go!!! Pop that cherry man! Pop! Pop! Pop!

This week's challenge: 'Do something you have never done before or have been too afraid to address'

PS
Nobody 'came' we still waiting.... :) But at least my cherry's popped!

One Love Jazuri J